Words can ruin any relationship in a matter of
minutes. You might have been together for
years, but once you say one of the things
women should never say to men, you may end
up with heartbreak. Women are tend to be
highly sensitive, but men, albeit they are brave
and patient, can get hurt too. Some men are
like children and it’s hard to build a serious
relationship with them. But if you love such a
man, you should avoid being clingy and needy,
because they are clingy and needy. Moreover,
they don’t like when you say something that
they don’t want to hear about. Even if you will
run away from a needy man, it’s important that
you avoid saying one of these things to your
partner.
1. You are a “mama’s boy”
Dating a “mama’s boy” is always hard, but if
you love your man and want to spend your life
with him, you should never say that he is a
“mama’s boy.” Accept this fact and don’t try to
change him. If your man is a “mama’s boy” in
his 20s, he will be “mama’s boy” in his 40s. Are
you ready for it? If yes, then love and
appreciate his mom more than your mom, and
he will love you till the end of his life. Personally
I avoid this type of men because any wrong
word about him or his mother can ruin your
relationship in a jiff. This is a lesson I learned
from my own experience.
2. Tell me more about your ex
Although we know that we shouldn’t dwell on
the past relationships, it’s tempting to know
more details about your boyfriend’s ex. Avoid
talks about exes, especially about intimate
details. If you have a crush on a guy, but he
doesn’t show any signs he likes you, or he has a
girlfriend, don’t ask him if he slept with her.
You will never win his heart with this question,
as well as you will never improve your
relationship when you know about your
partner’s exes.
3. Look that girl looks so fabulous!
This sentence ruined many relationships. While
it seems to be so simple and common, if you
tell it to your partner and he will say “yes” or
“fantastic” or something like that, chances are
you will get jealous and it may lead to a fight.
You probably start asking questions like, “Is she
more beautiful than me?” or “Would you like to
date her?” First, you may say that you’re just
curious and you simply want to know his
thought. But if he says “yes,” it will be the end
of the world. If he says “no,” you will think that
he’s trying to hide the truth from you, and it will
be the end of the world as well. Ladies, it’s a
sure sign of low self-esteem.
4. You can’t have fun
If you’re dating an introvert, you should accept
this fact and appreciate your partner’s traits.
You love parties and you know how to have lots
of fun. Your partner, however, may not like
parties, but it doesn’t mean that he can’t have
fun. Think twice before telling him, “you should
learn how to relax and have fun because you
are so shy and boring.” Once you tell him that,
he will never want to see you again, no matter
how much he loves you. Introverts know how to
relax and they are not shy. They know how to
love and they are loyal, but they are highly
sensitive. After all, introverts make the best
husbands!
5. Am I beautiful?
Well, ladies, if you want to boost your
confidence and self-esteem, leave your man
alone. While men can help women boost
confidence and feel better about themselves,
you should never ask your partner “Am I
beautiful?” If he really loves you, he will tell you
about it without your questions. If your man
doesn’t compliment you, it doen’t mean that
you are not beautiful. Probably, he doesn’t love
you at all.
6. You have a terrible fashion sense
If you don’t like how your man dresses, don’t
tell him about it. You can slowly get rid of his
old clothes and buy new ones, if you live
together. If not, then try to go shopping
together every time he wants to buy a shirt or a
jacket. If you tell him that he has a terrible
fashion sense, he won’t break up with you, of
course, but you can greatly damage his self-
esteem.
7. When will you call me and I see you again?
When you have a first date with a man you like,
it’s so tempting to ask him about your second
date. However, don’t do it. He will think you are
clingy, and most guys avoid clingy girls. He will
let you know when you will see again and when
he will call you, so don’t ask him. It’s not a
pride, but being clingy is not the best way out.
8. It’s just a work
If your man spent a few days trying to
accomplish an important project, but his boss
said that it’s a total failure. Don’t tell him “it’s
just a work.” Men appreciate their jobs,
especially when they do something they are
passionate about. You can tell something like,
“Next time your boss will definitely notice your
work,” or “Life is unfair, so maybe your boss
had a bad day and your project is actually great
but he didn’t notice it because of his bad
mood,” “Or don’t give up. You will do it better
next time. You are strong and I believe in you.”
Support your partner and he will cope with any
problem faster.
9. You will never become successful
If your man has a sweet temper and he can’t
take serious decisions without asking for your
advice, it’s tempting to say, “You are a man,
you should be brave, confident and successful.
You will never become successful, because
you’re born unlucky.” Don’t say it no matter
what. Not only will you ruin your relationship,
you will make him believe that he’s really
unlucky. Support him, motivate him, inspire him
and help him, but never reproach him
